Zaman, onu sadece y\u0131pratmad\u0131, ayn\u0131 zamanda bilgele\u015ftirdi, g\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 onca do\u011fum, onca ac\u0131, onu mahallenin “aral\u0131k ebesi”, dan\u0131\u015f\u0131lan, g\u00fcvenilen kad\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131. Art\u0131k o, kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fil, \u00e7ocuk hasreti \u00e7eken, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck yapan, rahats\u0131zlanan t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, t\u00fcm analar\u0131n umudu, s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131 oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 olmayan, s\u00fcrekli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck yapan annelerin karn\u0131na “\u00e7\u00f6mlek \u00e7ekerdi”. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7\u00f6mle\u011fin i\u00e7inde, zeytinya\u011f\u0131na bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, yak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir bez par\u00e7as\u0131 olurdu. Bu, kad\u0131ndan kad\u0131na, nesilden nesile aktar\u0131lan kadim bir y\u00f6ntemdi; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck rahmi yerine \u00e7ekmek, beli ve kaburgalar\u0131 a\u011fr\u0131yanlar\u0131 rahatlatmak i\u00e7in\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00dc\u00e7 g\u00fcn boyunca annenin karn\u0131n\u0131 ve kas\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nce \u0131s\u0131t\u0131lm\u0131\u015f zeyttinya\u011f\u0131 ile yo\u011furur, \u00e7\u00f6mle\u011fi yerle\u015ftirir, sonra vazelinle ya\u011flard\u0131. Bazen de \u00e7ocuk olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in s\u0131cak su torbas\u0131yla karn\u0131 uzun s\u00fcre \u0131s\u0131t\u0131r, rahmi canland\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Bu, t\u0131bbi bir m\u00fcdahale de\u011fil, kad\u0131ndan kad\u0131na aktar\u0131lan bir \u015fifa, bir umut \u0131s\u0131tmas\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do\u011fan bebeklere \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcn boyunca tuz serper, s\u0131k\u0131ca sarard\u0131. Tuzun, bebe\u011fin v\u00fccudundaki fazla ya\u011flar\u0131 eritti\u011fine, onu g\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi\u011fine, cildi s\u0131k\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Do\u011fumdan tam \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra, kendisi de bebe\u011fi de y\u0131kan\u0131rd\u0131. Bebe\u011fin d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6bek ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zenle y\u0131kar, kurutur, bir bez par\u00e7as\u0131na sarar ve bebe\u011fin ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131na koyard\u0131; bunun ileride \u00e7ocu\u011fa u\u011fur, zek\u00e2 getirece\u011fine inan\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Bebek sar\u0131l\u0131k olmas\u0131n diye a\u011fz\u0131na bir iki damla \u015fekerli su damlat\u0131r, y\u00fcz\u00fcne hava alan sar\u0131 bir t\u00fcl \u00f6rterdi. “K\u0131rk\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131\u015f” bebe\u011fin k\u0131rk\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rken, y\u0131kanaca\u011f\u0131 suya bir lira (bereket i\u00e7in) ve murt yapra\u011f\u0131 (sa\u011fl\u0131k ve tazelik i\u00e7in) atar, \u00f6nce ellerini, sonra ayaklar\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131kar, kalan suyu usulca ba\u015f\u0131ndan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6kerdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu, maddi yoklu\u011fun i\u00e7inden s\u00fcz\u00fclen, derin bir manevi zenginlik ve inan\u00e7 rit\u00fceliydi. Bir g\u00fcn, ac\u0131 s\u00fcs biberini \u00e7ok seven bir hamile kad\u0131n\u0131n bebe\u011finin y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn \u015fi\u015f ve ters do\u011fdu\u011funa tan\u0131k oldu. Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131, s\u00fcrekli biber yedi\u011fi i\u00e7in bebe\u011fini \u00f6l\u00fc do\u011furdu. Bu ac\u0131 tecr\u00fcbeler, ona ve \u00e7evresindeki t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlara, hamilelikte yedikleriyle, i\u00e7tikleriyle bebeklerinin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 aras\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir ba\u011f oldu\u011funu, bir annenin yedi\u011fi her lokman\u0131n kutsal bir sorumluluk ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretti. O, hi\u00e7 doktor y\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6rmedi, ama y\u00fcre\u011finin ve ellerinin \u015fifas\u0131yla onlarca hayata dokundu. Pamuk toplarken y\u0131pranan o eller, bebeklerin g\u00f6bek ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kesti, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n sanc\u0131l\u0131 kar\u0131nlar\u0131na umut oldu, yeni do\u011fan bebekleri hayata haz\u0131rlad\u0131. Hi\u00e7 meyve yiyemedi, belki ci\u011ferin tad\u0131n\u0131 bilmedi, ama hayat\u0131, y\u00fczlerce \u00e7ocu\u011fun, onlarca ailenin hayat\u0131na meyve veren, g\u00f6lge olan, k\u00f6k salan bir a\u011fa\u00e7 gibi oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn, l\u00fcks\u00fcn ve konforun i\u00e7inde, hangi “can\u0131m \u00e7ekti”lerimiz bize dert oluyor? Biz, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n hangi “ci\u011fer”lerini, onun o engin sabr\u0131, s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z sevgisi ve do\u011fal bilgeli\u011fi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda bir kenara b\u0131rakabiliriz? O, yoklu\u011fun k\u0131skac\u0131nda bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k gibi, sessizce, metanetle parlad\u0131. Biz, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n i\u00e7inde o \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131, o dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, o saf sevgiyi ne kadar \u00e7o\u011faltabiliyor, kendi hayatlar\u0131m\u0131za ne kadar ta\u015f\u0131yabiliyoruz?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Zaman, onu sadece y\u0131pratmad\u0131, ayn\u0131 zamanda bilgele\u015ftirdi, g\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 onca do\u011fum, onca ac\u0131, onu mahallenin “aral\u0131k ebesi”, dan\u0131\u015f\u0131lan, g\u00fcvenilen kad\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131. Art\u0131k o, kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fil, \u00e7ocuk hasreti \u00e7eken, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck yapan, rahats\u0131zlanan t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, t\u00fcm analar\u0131n umudu, s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131 oldu. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 olmayan, s\u00fcrekli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck yapan annelerin karn\u0131na “\u00e7\u00f6mlek \u00e7ekerdi”. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7\u00f6mle\u011fin i\u00e7inde, zeytinya\u011f\u0131na bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, yak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":47321,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-hilmi-dulkadir-sehrin-sakli-analari","category-manset"],"views":6,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47961"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=47961"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47961\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47962,"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47961\/revisions\/47962"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/47321"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=47961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=47961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersinkadingazetesi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=47961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}